Want to start living a better life? Try this first.

I was the most adventurous, most willing to take risks, and very ambitious.  I’d move to a new city at the blink of an eye, quit jobs with nothing lined up, and dream my days away without abandon.


A sure formula for creating something incredible, right? 


Yet, I was driving the struggle bus and I mean hard. 


I was broke, seriously, no money whatsoever, in a temporary job with no benefits, making 27k a year, and I drove Tina the Toyota, who was on her last leg at 230,000 miles.  


How could someone who had so much going for them in some ways, end up where I was?  


And, even with all of the shit I was dealing with, I knew I could do better. 


I was certain of it! If only I could figure out how to get there.  I saw so many other people happy and thriving, that surely I could figure it out too!


Maybe my free spirit was the problem?  Maybe I needed to be more “realistic.” 


The very idea sent shivers down my spine. 


I hated realistic, because I knew life wasn’t meant to be lived realistically. 


Yet, here I was. 

Maybe you’re in the same boat.

You’ve always been the wild one.  The one who’s out there, who marches to the beat of your own drum, and doesn’t GAF about what other people think. 


Yet, there are still some not so glamorous parts of your life that are currently stalking you like the dementors in Harry Potter.   


Maybe you’re broke, like I was.  Or, you have a job you hate.  Maybe you make a ton of money, but you have zero time to enjoy doing the things that inspire and bring you joy.  Maybe, you’re someone who looks like they have their shit together, but behind the scenes, it’s threat level midnight and your ship is going down. 


Or, maybe, you’re perfectly happy right now, but you have this little voice urging you to do more.  Or, maybe, you feel completely lost.  Like your life has been turned upside down and you’re stuck on a roller coaster ride that just won’t stop? 


Regardless of where you are right now, you need only do one thing to get your ducks in a row.  

And, that’s making the decision to create something better for yourself.    


To go from wanting something better, to deciding that you’re doing it.  That you’re jumping in with both feet and figuring this shit out, once and for all. No turning back, no half-assing it.  


That’s all it takes to create an extraordinary life. 


Deciding that you’re going for it.  And, then following through with that decision.

Sounds too good to be true, right?

Well, while going from wanting something better, to actually doing it, is pretty low-stakes, there’s a little more involved. 


Because making a decision is the hardest thing we do as human beings. 


It gets us out of our heads, where we spend most of our time “thinking” about our options.  And, I dunno about you, but that’s where I’m most comfortable.  


Because thinking doesn’t require commitment.  It’s a state of flux where we can change our mind anytime we want.  


Deciding is totally different.  It’s where the rubber hits the highway.   


Deciding means taking massive action into the unknown.  


Deciding that it’s time to step into your brilliance and kick some ass takes you outta your comfort zone.  You’re no longer swimming in the familiar.  Everything from this point forward is gonna be new and likely pretty scary.  


You’ll have to push through all of your past stories and create new ones that set you up for success along the way.  


Because this is your one precious life we’re talking about here. 

Tired of just going through the motions? Ready to kick some ass & create something better for yourself?

My coaching program is all about getting you results.  I’ll help you:

  • Improve Your Mindset
  • Find Your Passion
  • Grow Your Self Confidence
  • Overcome Your Fears
  • Land Your Dream Job
  • Make More Money
  • Be Happier
  • Develop Healthy Habits 
  • Improve Your Productivity
  • Identify Your Strengths
  • Set and Accomplish Meaningful Goals
  • Get Motivated
  • Overcome Procrastination 
  • Get More Life Clarity
  • Eliminate Distractions
  • Start Your Dream Business 
  • Overcome Fatigue and Burnout
  • Step into Your True Potential

This shit is IMPORTANT. 


For me, this all started with the decision to roll up my sleeves, pull my skeletons out of the closet, and figure this out.  


And, that started with me spending countless hours reading self-help books, surrounding myself with people who actually enjoyed their lives, and spending copious amounts of money, I didn’t have btw, on coaching, webinars, and courses that helped me figure this ish out.  


I took big leaps into the unknown and hoped that things worked out.  


And, because I took one for the team, I now live a pretty incredible life!


But, it took deciding that I deserved a better life to make that happen.  


I had to go from wishing things would get better to taking the painstakingly uncomfortable steps to make them better. 

And, you can do the same. But, you first have to go from wanting something better to deciding you’re doing it.

No more going through the motions.  No more starting, then stopping when things get hard.  


You’ve gotta put this piece in the wind and make it happen.  


That’s where my journey started.  And, if you want to start living a better life too, I’d encourage you to start here too. 


Make the decision that you’re going to do this..  That now is the perfect time.  And, you’re not giving up until you figure this out.  


No more wishy washy.  No more back and forth.  The definite decision that you’re going to figure this put no matter what it takes.  

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